You'll want to get a nice Valentine's Day jewelry gift for your girlfriend. Don't know anything about jewelry for girlfriends? Read this guide!

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Valentine's Day is a big deal. Don't think it doesn't matter to your girlfriend! If you're thinking it's not important, consider that Americans are spending €19.6 billion on Valentine's Day.

You'll want to get a nice Valentine's Day jewelry gift for your girlfriend. Don't know anything about jewelry for girlfriends? Read on to learn what to buy her for Valentine's day.

Why Valentine's Day?

February 14, is Valentine's day every year. It's traditional to give gifts and send cards. But why and what does it mean?

Valentine's day is named after a Christian martyr. It's not clear which of the three saints called Valentine he could have been. The various legends attribute romantic stories to the early Christian saint.

One story is of a priest who continued to conduct marriages even after marriage was outlawed by the Roman Emperor Claudius II. The Emperor preferred that young men should serve in the Roman army. Valentine continued to perform marriages and was executed for his romantic acts of defiance.

Another story is of a Valentine who was imprisoned after helping Christians to escape Roman prisons. As he prepared for his eventual execution he wrote a letter to a girl he loved. This may have been the first of millions of Valentine cards as he signed it "from your Valentine".

These legends were later combined with pagan celebrations to create Valentine's day traditions we know today. It's a day for declaring your love, romantic messages, and gift giving.

Buying Jewelry for Girlfriends

If you've never bought jewelry for a girlfriend the thought of it might seem daunting. What if you buy the wrong thing? You might be making an expensive mistake.

How do make sure that you don't buy something that she'll hate? Worse still what if she is actually insulted by your choice? You might inadvertently buy something completely inappropriate or make a fashion faux pas.

Don't worry, you can do this. Surprising her with some beautiful jewelry is going to make her very happy. She'll treasure it and love you for being so thoughtful.

Start by Paying Attention

Getting the right jewelry for your girlfriend starts with some research. Like any project, you have to do your homework. Start by paying close attention to her.

Check out the jewelry she wears now. Get clues to what she likes and dislikes from her current jewelry choices.

Note if there are gaps in her jewelry collection. Perhaps she wears gold rings and a gold necklace together but when she wears silver rings she doesn't have a silver necklace.

Personal Style

Getting a handle on your girlfriend's personal style can help you chose the right gift. What styles in clothing and makeup does she prefer? Does she have an identifiable image that you could take a lead from?

A woman with Goth sensibilities will be unlikely to like pretty girly pink things. She might love you for buying her a silver ring with a jet or amber stone. The black stone or dead insects encased in amber may resonate with her dark, inner depths.

Matching Personality

Jewelry taste can be associated with personality. This can be quite straight forward. If she is happy to be the center of attention she is likely to be comfortable with showy "look at me" jewelry choices.

Is your girlfriend somewhat whimsical, with quirky quotes on her walls and accounts of fairies following her every move? Perhaps a charm bracelet or a new charm for the charm bracelet she already has would be perfect. Unicorns, hearts, and butterflies are a good bet but avoid skulls and sports.

Give Her Options

Having multiple ways of wearing jewelry is always good. An unusually colored necklace might be pretty but if she doesn't have a suitable outfit to wear with it it becomes a problem piece of jewelry. A chain has to be worn with a blouse or dress with an appropriate neckline or it is consigned to the jewelry box.

There is a way around this problem. Buy jewelry that is flexible. Adjustable length chains are a great example of this.

With an adjustable length chain, she can change the length depending on what she is wearing. This way she can wear her treasured Valentine gift on a date with evening wear and for work the next day. It can look great with a pendant on one day and with a locket the next.

Get the Metal Right

Your girlfriend may prefer a particular color of metal. Silver and platinum are a good alternative to white gold.

Check what jewelry she normally wears for her preference. It's also worth checking if she has any skin reaction to any particular metal jewelry. Some people have a skin reaction to some metals and so they're best avoided.

Size Is Important

Chose jewelry that is proportionate to her size. Some women can carry off the challenge of wearing big chunky rings especially if they are themselves larger. A larger than life personality also helps. A more petite figure would be overwhelmed by a large statement ring but set off a delicate ring beautifully.

You will need to get the right sized ring. If you can't get her finger or one of her rings to a jewelry store to be measured don't worry. You don't need to guess.

Use a ring sizing guide from a jewelry website and compare one of her existing rings to it. You will need to decide which finger you propose she wears the ring on. Don't buy a ring for her ring finger unless you intend it to be an engagement or wedding ring.

Just Buy It

Do your homework and make a choice. Buy from a reputable online website and check the returns policy. That way, it's virtually risk-free.

If she really hates it you'll know. Suggest returning it and helping her choose something nice. Buying jewelry for girlfriends is something you can do together.

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Valentine's day is fast approaching. So will you do the right thing and buy jewelry for your girlfriend this year? Here are some tips to help you choose wisely.

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20% of all Americans are chronic procrastinators. If you're someone who tends to leave things to the last minute then you may not have enough time to get your loved one the perfect gift.

With Valentine's Day approaching fast, the sooner you start looking for a gift she'll love, the better your chances.

To help you out, we've put together a list of tips for picking jewelry for your girlfriend that will put a smile on her face.

1. Look at What She Already Has

If you haven't paid much attention to her jewelry now then it's time you made the effort. Your girlfriend will only wear the type of jewelry she likes, so make a note of what you see and which are the favorites that she wears often. 

The positive aspect of doing this is you can compliment her on the jewelry she's wearing as you take a closer look. You may also start to realize the extra effort she puts in to look her best for you.

2. Figure Out Her Colors and Metal

As you look at her jewelry, it will become obvious what color she prefers.

Some women like to adorn themselves in silver while others prefer gold. That doesn't mean the jewelry is made of silver and gold -- it could be a number of metals, so try to get her to tell you what they are.

Saying things like "that silver necklace looks great on you" may prompt her to correct you if it's a different metal or provides crucial information such as if it's hypoallergenic.

3. Get the Right Necklace Length 

Necklaces make excellent gifts, but a common hurdle most guys face is when the jeweler asks about the chain length.

By looking at her and what she wears, you should get a decent idea of the length she likes. To be safe, it's always recommended you measure one of her necklaces to get the exact length she goes for.

You should also look at the neckline of her outfits. Does she wear clothes that go up to the base of her neck or are her outfits normally more low-cut? Wherever the top of the outfit meets her neck or chest is her neckline.

When in doubt? An adjustable necklace chain is a beautiful choice. And, you can't get the size wrong!

4. Pay Attention to Her Outfits

Another important aspect of choosing any jewelry is to get something that matches her style.

Ironically, you may even realize she's wearing jewelry that doesn't quite work or match what she has on. This could likely be because she just doesn't have the right jewelry and hasn't been able to buy it herself.

If you were to give her a piece while recommended the outfits she has that you think it would look good with, she'll realize how much time and effort you put into her gift.

5. Size Matters 

Jewelry is versatile and fashionable -- meaning it can range anywhere from small and delicate, to large and loud. 

Some women prefer to wear jewelry that is understated but beautiful while others like to flaunt their glamorous collection. Based on what you've seen from your girlfriend and her personality, you should be able to make the right decision.

6. Commercial or Handmade Jewelry for Your Girlfriend?

There is no wrong answer here, and again, it depends on your girlfriend.

Some people have a lot of issues with large, wealthy jewelry companies and prefer unique, handmade pieces that no-one else can get. Others, however, want jewelry that is high quality and expensive which let them feel elegant and sophisticated.

How your girlfriend feels about this can be found out through simple conversations about where she normally gets her jewelry or what she thinks about the industry. You can always justify the conversation by saying that you're looking for a woman's perspective on it. 

7. Think of Special Moments

If you figure out her style, metal, colors, and preferences, you may still be overwhelmed by the sheer variety of choices.

Don't panic!

A good way to narrow down the options is to write a short list of some of the best moments or memories of your relationship. Buying her a piece of jewelry that symbolizes that moment will mean the world to her and show just how much you treasure being with her.

If your first kiss was outside at night, you could get her jewelry in the shape of a star or with a star attached to it. 

8. Create a Special Memory

You may think of some great moments but just can't seem to find anything that makes sense or that is within your price range. In that case, use the information you have to pick some jewelry that you know she'll like and make the moment you give it to her special.

As an example, let's say for Valentine's Day you take her for a romantic trip to the seaside. You could take her out for a delicious meal and afterward suggest walking along the beach.

As you walk you can point out seashells you think are nice before bending down and pretending to pick one up saying "I just found the perfect one." Imagine her surprise and delight when you hand her a beautiful seashell-themed bracelet!

This is just an example of course! Whatever you feel is appropriate for the gift you found is worth doing. What's important is that she'll see just how much effort you put into trying to make her feel special. 

9. Let Her Choose

It's absolutely okay and even normal to feel confused and indecisive. It's hard to pick out jewelry and you want to make sure you get her the right gift rather than waste money.

If you truly feel stuck and can't think of anything then you can have her choose during a romantic event. Plan a romantic day full of activities and things that she loves. As you near the jewelry store, tell her you wanted to give her something special and would love to pick out jewelry with her to remember this special day. 

Do What's Right for Her

When thinking about getting jewelry for your girlfriend, it's amazing how much information you can learn the moment you start paying attention. Look at her, listen to what she says, and the answer should become clear as day.

For more advice on finding the perfect gift, check out our other articles. Or, browse through our exclusive collections!